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Healing from Childhood Trauma: Your Path to Recovery

  • Writer: Derek Flint - BSc : Dip. Couns. : PNCPS - Acc.
    Derek Flint - BSc : Dip. Couns. : PNCPS - Acc.
  • Dec 23, 2025
  • 4 min read

Updated: 4 days ago

Understanding Childhood Trauma - ACEs Recovery


Childhood trauma and Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) can take many forms. They might include experiences of neglect, abuse, loss, or other difficult events that happened when you were young. These experiences can leave deep emotional wounds that affect how you see yourself and the world around you. Recovery means learning to notice and acknowledge what has happened, heal those wounds, and regain control over your life.


When we talk about ACEs and working through these, it’s important to remember that healing is not a straight path. It’s okay to take small steps. It’s okay to ask for help. And it’s okay to take your time. Therapy offers a safe space where you can explore your feelings without judgment. It helps you understand how your past affects your present and gives you tools to cope with difficult emotions.


One of the first steps in changing this is recognising the impact of trauma on your mental and physical health. You might notice feelings of anxiety, depression, or difficulty trusting others. These are common responses, and therapy can help you work through them gently and effectively.


Eye-level view of a quiet therapy room with a comfortable chair and soft lighting
A calm therapy space for healing childhood trauma

How Therapy Supports Childhood Trauma Recovery


Therapy is a journey we take together. It’s a place where you can feel heard, understood, and supported. Different types of therapy offer different ways to heal, and finding the right fit for you is important.


In therapy, you might learn to:


  • Identify and express your feelings safely.

  • Notice and acknowledge adverse childhood events.

  • Understand how your adverse childhood experiences shape your thoughts and behaviours.

  • Develop healthy coping strategies for stress and triggers.

  • Build stronger relationships with yourself and others.

  • Rebuild your sense of self-worth and confidence.


Therapists use gentle, empathetic approaches to help you feel safe. They guide you through your story at a pace that feels right for you. This supportive environment can make a big difference in your healing process.


If you’re feeling unsure about therapy, remember that it’s okay to ask questions. You can talk about what you hope to achieve and what worries you might have. A good therapist will listen and work with you to create a plan that feels comfortable and effective.


What is the Best Therapy for ACEs?


When it comes to healing from adverse childhood experiences (ACEs), there isn’t a one-size-fits-all answer. The best therapy depends on your unique needs and experiences. However, some approaches have shown great success in helping people recover from childhood trauma.


Working with the past from a psychodynamic perspective or with attachment theory can be helpful, and our counsellors will work with you to gain an understanding of what has happened, and agree on a collaborative way of working that best suits you and helps you the most.


At Churchill Square Counselling, we understand how important it is to find the right therapy for you. We offer personalised support to help you explore these options and find what works best.


Close-up view of a therapist’s notebook with notes and a pen
Therapist’s notes during a session for childhood trauma recovery

Taking the First Step Towards Healing


Starting therapy can feel like a big step, but it’s also a brave and hopeful one. Here are some practical tips to help you begin your journey:


  1. Reach out for support - Whether it’s a trusted friend, family member, or a professional, sharing your intention to seek help can make the process easier.

  2. Research your options - Look for therapists who specialise in childhood trauma recovery. You might want to ask about their experience and approach.

  3. Set small goals - Healing doesn’t happen overnight. Setting small, achievable goals can help you feel more in control.

  4. Be patient with yourself - Some days will be harder than others. That’s okay. Healing is a process, not a race.

  5. Use available resources - Books, support groups, and online communities can offer additional comfort and understanding.


Remember, therapy is a partnership. You have the right to ask questions, express your needs, and take breaks when you need them. Your comfort and safety are the most important things.


How Churchill Square Counselling Can Help You


At Churchill Square Counselling, we are here to walk alongside you. We provide a warm, welcoming space where you can feel safe to explore your feelings and experiences. Our team understands the complexities of childhood trauma and the courage it takes to seek help.


We offer tailored therapy sessions for individuals, couples, and families. Our goal is to help you build a happier future by providing the individual support and help you need. Whether you are just starting your journey or have been working on healing for some time, we are here to support you every step of the way.


If you want to learn more about how therapy can help, or if you’re ready to take that first step, please don’t hesitate to get in touch. You deserve to find peace and happiness, and we are honoured to help you get there.


For those interested in specialised support, you might find adverse childhood experiences therapy particularly helpful. It focuses on understanding and healing the specific impacts of childhood trauma.


Embracing Your Journey to a Brighter Tomorrow


Healing from childhood trauma is a deeply personal journey. It takes courage, patience, and support. But it also brings hope, growth, and the chance to build a life filled with joy and meaning.


You are not defined by your past. You have the strength to move forward and create a future that feels safe and fulfilling. Therapy can be a gentle guide on this path, helping you uncover your resilience and rediscover your worth.


Take your time. Be kind to yourself. And remember, every step you take is a step towards healing. You are worthy of love, peace, and happiness.


If you are ready to explore therapy for childhood trauma recovery, Churchill Square Counselling is here to help you find the support you need. Together, we can work towards a brighter tomorrow.


If you want to arrange a free initial appointment, get in touch here and we can help Meet the Team.

 
 
 

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