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This section can be a helpful starting point if you’re unsure about therapy. It answers some common questions in a straightforward way, so you can get a sense of how we work, what to expect, and whether it feels like the right fit before making contact. Meet the team here to see who is available or fill in the contact form and we will get in touch to help.


Relationship Arguments: Why Do We Keep Having the Same Argument?
Relationship arguments can leave couples feeling frustrated, misunderstood and emotionally exhausted. This blog explores why the same disagreements keep returning, what recurring conflict is often really about, and how Relationship Therapy can help couples move beyond familiar patterns.

Maria Konstantinelli - MA : MNCPS (Acc.) : MBACP
Aug 86 min read


Dating App Rejection: Why Does It Hurt So Much?
Dating app rejection can feel surprisingly personal, even when it comes from someone you've never met. This blog explores why dating apps can affect confidence, self-esteem and emotional wellbeing, and how Relationship Therapy may help if these experiences begin affecting your everyday life.

Derek Flint - BSc : Dip. Couns. : PNCPS - Accred.
Aug 14 min read


Why Do Couples Have Different Sex Drives in Relationships?
Different sex drives in relationships are one of the most common reasons couples seek support. While it can lead to frustration, misunderstanding or feelings of rejection, differences in desire are often a normal part of long-term relationships. Understanding why desire changes can help couples move away from blame and towards greater understanding. Psychosexual therapy can help understanding those changes can help couples move away from blame and towards greater compassion f

Maria Konstantinelli - MA : MNCPS (Acc.) : MBACP
Jul 126 min read


Why Do Couples Stop Having Sex? Understanding Desire, Intimacy and Relationship Changes in Psychosexual Therapy
Many couples experience changes in their sex life at some point in their relationship. While this can feel worrying, frustrating, or even painful, it is often more common than people realise. This article explores some of the reasons couples stop having sex, how desire changes over time, and how psychosexual therapy and relationship therapy can help couples reconnect.

Maria Konstantinelli - MA : MNCPS (Acc.) : MBACP
Jun 215 min read


Why Do Relationships Sometimes Feel So Difficult?
Relationships can bring closeness, comfort, and connection, but they can also trigger anxiety, conflict, emotional distance, and feelings we struggle to explain. This blog explores attachment, emotional safety, intimacy, and why relationships sometimes feel harder than we expected and how relationship therapy can help you get back on track.

Maria Konstantinelli - MA : MNCPS (Acc.) : MBACP
May 244 min read


Why Do I Feel Stuck in Life? Understanding Patterns and How Counselling Can Help
There’s a moment most people recognise, even if they don’t talk about it much. You’re standing there, looking at the options in front of you, knowing you should probably make a decision. Nothing is stopping you. There’s no real barrier. And yet, you hesitate. It’s not really about the choice itself. It’s what sits underneath it. That quiet sense of uncertainty. The overthinking. The second-guessing. The feeling that whatever you pick might not quite be right, so you pause and

Derek Flint - BSc : Dip. Couns. : PNCPS - Accred.
Apr 184 min read


Churchill Square Counselling West Malling - Therapeutic Services in Kent
Churchill Square Counselling West Malling - Therapeutic Services in Kent | Therapy Kent | Counselling Kings Hill | we are a team of qualified and experienced counsellors and therapists. If you are wondering which therapist is right for me, please read the profiles here and get in touch with the one who seems to meet your needs or arrange an initial call to discuss how we can help - counselling Kent | depression therapist Kent | anxiety therapy Kent | couples therapy Kent | st

Derek Flint - BSc : Dip. Couns. : PNCPS - Accred.
Mar 266 min read


Single Session Therapy - Stop Waiting. Start Dealing With It
There is a saying that "one is never enough" and that may be right in many ways - but when it comes to Single Session Therapy, it can be true that one session can be enough to change more than you think possible! A single therapy session isn’t about long-term commitment. You’re not signing up for a process. You’re stepping into a moment of change - A Single Session Therapy approach tends to move quickly, by design

Derek Flint - BSc : Dip. Couns. : PNCPS - Accred.
Mar 214 min read


Jealousy Counselling – How to Repair a Relationship
Jealousy Counselling. How to Repair a Relationship. For many couples, jealousy therapy or counselling for jealousy provides a supportive space to understand what is really happening beneath these feelings and how the relationship can move forward in a healthier way | Relationship Counselling | Ripple Effect | Therapy for Jealousy | Relationship Counselling in Kent | Couples Therapy Kent | Couples Therapy West Malling | Counselling Kings Hill | Counselling West Malling | Thera

Maria Konstantinelli - MA : MNCPS (Acc.) : MBACP
Mar 135 min read
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